Responsible drinking & smoking on events

Dear wedding & event guests

Blah, bla & bla. Yes there are rules on this planet. Especially when you are at a public place and even more when there are younger children around you.

There are many people out there that most probably do not want to hear this. If you are a guest that is invited to a wedding , please think of the bridal couple first before you start to consume more and more alcohol.

You cigarette buds are lying all around the venue, although astrays are provided. Even if the MC announced the rules regarding high fire season, you just don’t listen, because you do not care.

It becomes very unpleasant for other guests, the venue and staff when you vomit everywhere. When someone else have to cleanup after you. When YOU, SIR and MADAM start to become aggressive shout, scream & swear. At this point, you should rater go home. When you cant accept NO for an answer when the manager tells you very politely not to drink alcohol from your boot in the parking and need to call security. Then you get totally aggressive and make this entire day unpleasant for everybody.

When you prefer to drink and not to eat and hours later your food is stone cold and you still expect the food to taste the same as hours before when it was prepared with the greatest love and care

When you are only a guest at a wedding, but want to take over the entire planning of the day and do it your way and disrespect the timeline.

You call yourself a friend of the bridal couple?

NO, let me tell you SIR, you attended this special day just to be at a free party. Not even for a few hours you can sacrifice not to be drunk or aggressive, because you think it is only about YOU. You are no longer at school, where the teachers need to reprimand you. You are an adult and you should behave like an adult. These things should come naturally.

My sincere advise to all the aggressive drinkers and smokers out there. Stay home and do not accept an invitation if you know you cant control yourself.

My advise to bridal couples regarding your guest list. Keep your circle of friends and family small & intimate. Those extras guests that you are unsure of inviting. Don’t, follow your instinct. They badmouth you anyway behind your back.